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-CHAPTERS-
00:00 Introduction to Dave Fielding and His Journey
02:19 The Impact of Family Legacy on Military Aspirations
08:57 Navigating Personal Identity and Military Expectations
14:31 The Struggle Between Personal Happiness and External Expectations
19:10 Marriage and Military Life: Balancing Two Worlds
24:05 The Challenges of Being a Green Beret and a Partner
31:20 The Decision to Become a Spy: A New Chapter
38:40 Reflections on Relationships and Personal Growth
46:26 Navigating Personal Turmoil
52:29 The Complexity of Relationships
01:00:12 Compartmentalization in High-Stakes Environments
01:03:21 The Thrill of the Mission
01:13:05 Struggles with Mental Health
01:21:37 Finding Purpose in the Mission
01:31:49 Christmas Day Raid: A Bold Proposal
01:33:45 The Emotional High of a Successful Mission
01:36:35 The Aftermath of the Soleimani Strike
01:42:39 Betrayal and Its Consequences
01:45:51 Facing Inner Demons: A Journey of Self-Discovery
01:53:30 From Chaos to Self-Love: A Transformative Journey
02:01:58 Building a New Purpose: Helping Others
02:12:27 Finding Connection: Sharing the Journey
-SUMMARY-
In this conversation, Dave Fielding shares his journey from a young idealist inspired by his family's military legacy to a Green Beret and spy. He discusses the emotional struggles he faced, including the impact of his relationships and the pressures of military life. Throughout the conversation, he reflects on the importance of being true to oneself, the challenges of balancing personal happiness with external expectations, and the thrill of serving in high-stakes environments. In this conversation, Dave Fielding shares his experiences as a special forces operative, detailing the emotional challenges faced during deployment, the impact of relationships on mental health, and the journey towards self-discovery and healing. He discusses the pressures of military life, the toll of betrayal, and the importance of finding purpose in the mission. Ultimately, Dave emphasizes the significance of self-love and ownership in overcoming personal struggles and building a healthier future.
-TAKEAWAYS-
Being real with oneself is the foundation of masculinity.
Family legacy can significantly influence personal choices.
The military experience can shape one's identity and values.
Fear often drives decisions that may not align with true desires.
Relationships can complicate personal and professional lives in the military.
The importance of communication in maintaining relationships.
Adapting to environments can lead to losing sight of one's true self.
The emotional toll of divorce can impact mental health and career.
Finding purpose in high-stakes jobs can be exhilarating.
Compartmentalization is a key skill in both military and spy work. The mentality of always proving your worth is crucial in special forces.
Emotional struggles during deployment can lead to severe mental health issues.
A moment of despair can lead to a turning point in life.
Finding purpose in the mission can be a lifesaver.
Betrayal can come from unexpected places, impacting mental health.
Self-discovery is a journey that requires confronting inner demons.
Addiction to chaos can stem from a need for control and excitement.
Learning to love oneself is essential for healthy relationships.
The energy you give out attracts similar energy back to you.
Owning your struggles is the first step towards healing.
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Green Beret / Intelligence Officer / Author
I grew up outside of Boston, MA in a blue collar family. My desire to serve started at an early age hearing stories of my grandfather Jack Fielding, an RAF navigator who was a POW during the Great Escape in WWII. I enlisted in 2010 as an 18X, was selected to be a Special Forces Communication Sergeant. I was on ODA 1111 1st Battalion 1st Special Forces Group in Okinawa Japan. Did the last OEF-Philippines rotation on the CT LCE, among many other deployments around Southeast Asia. Along the way I became the ODA's 18F Special Forces Intelligence Sergeant and was picked up by a special program to become a human intelligence officer. After 21 something months of training I was sent on an OIR rotation producing human intelligence in order to kill/capture ISIS and Al-Qaeda leadership. As things heated up with Iran I was one of the guys that helped brought down Soleimani. My awards include a BSM, MSM, and a couple AAMs. I wrote a book titled Into the Darkness: A Journey of Love, War, and Emotional Freedom, it is a no holds barred story about my battle with suicide and all the ugly things that come with it. I wrote the book because I have lost quite a few friends to suicide, and. I wanted to tell my story to help empower guys out there "own their shit" and heal just as hard as they fight. Other than writing I work in health and wellness for law enforcement.
